Christmas is just around the corner. Who would you most like to spend it with? Perhaps a friend you have not had a proper catch-up with in ages, family members whose busy schedules rarely line up, or the partner who is always by your side. An evening together, a small gift they will love, and a heartfelt "thank you" may be all you need to make the occasion special.

As for what to serve, what to bring and what to write in your Christmas card, The Gift has put together some ideas for festive gatherings and Christmas gifts. We hope they make the preparations a little easier, leaving you more time for the people you want to see.

Who Would You Like to Spend Christmas With This Year?

Enjoy an Unhurried Meal with Friends and Family

Often, the best part of a gathering with friends and family is finally having time to sit down, share a meal and enjoy a proper conversation. Someone prepares the main course, someone brings dessert, and someone else takes care of drinks and snacks. With everyone contributing a little, the host can relax and enjoy the occasion too.

If you are visiting a friend's home, you could ask beforehand, "What are you planning to serve? Is there anything you would like me to bring?" If there is already plenty of food, a gift your host can enjoy later is just as thoughtful.

Spend a Relaxed Evening with Your Partner

Christmas as a couple does not have to involve a packed schedule. Booking a favourite restaurant, or staying in to cook and watch a film, can be just as lovely.

Everyday moments can also inspire a thoughtful gift. Perhaps your partner recently mentioned a food they wanted to try, a chocolate they have always loved, or some teatime treats you once enjoyed together. Add a card saying, "I remembered you saying you liked this, so I wanted to get it for you," and the gift becomes something personal to the two of you.

Take an Afternoon Break with Colleagues

When you see your colleagues every day, conversation tends to revolve around work. Finding an afternoon before Christmas to share some biscuits and chocolates, and chat about holiday plans, can make a welcome change. Something everyone can enjoy, along with a few words of thanks, keeps things simple and natural.

If you are arranging gifts on behalf of your company, start by deciding whether each colleague will receive an individual gift or whether you would prefer something for everyone to share in the office. Once that is clear, choosing the food and working out quantities becomes much easier.

A Shared Meal, a Small Gift and a Warm Christmas Together

Prepare Dinner Together or Meet for Afternoon Tea

If you are celebrating Christmas at home, you could arrange for everyone to bring a dish or a snack, rather than leaving everything to the host. Share the preparations, then sit down and take your time over the meal. For something more relaxed, meet for afternoon tea instead. A pot of tea, a few biscuits and some cakes are all you need for a leisurely catch-up.

Take the Chance to Catch Up and Say Thank You

With everyone busy in their daily lives, some updates only get a few brief messages. Meeting in person gives you time to talk properly. What has been keeping you busy, where you have travelled this year, or what you would like to do together next all make easy conversation starters. If there is a "thank you" you have been meaning to say, this could be the moment to say it.

Bring a Small Gift for a Little Surprise

If you have arranged a gift exchange, choose something within the agreed budget, such as teatime treats, snacks or an everyday item the recipient would enjoy. It does not have to be expensive. Remembering their preferences is what makes the gesture thoughtful.

If you do not yet know who will receive your gift, consider teatime treats or snacks that are easy to share, while checking the ingredients and keeping dietary restrictions in mind. For gifts containing alcohol, make sure the recipient is an adult and is happy to receive it.

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Add a Christmas Card to Put Your Thoughts into Words

When giving a gift, consider including a small card with a few words for the recipient. You might thank them for being there throughout the year, or explain why you chose that particular gift. There is no need to write a long message. A few simple lines, written as naturally as you would speak, can feel wonderfully personal.

If you would like to include a card with your gift, the THE GIFT product page mentioned above lists options for greeting cards and personal message cards with envelopes. Contact customer service to confirm the details.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I Have to Bring a Gift When Visiting a Friend's Home?

Not necessarily. Let your usual way of spending time together guide you. If you would like to bring something, ask whether your host needs anything, or choose a small gift they can enjoy afterwards. There is no need to make it an elaborate gesture.

How Can I Choose a Christmas Gift If I Do Not Know the Recipient's Tastes?

Start with things that come up in conversation, such as whether they prefer tea or coffee, or sweet treats or savoury snacks. If you really have no idea, it is perfectly natural to ask. That is better than buying something they do not like or cannot eat.

Is One Gift for a Whole Family Less Thoughtful?

Not at all. Choosing something everyone can share, and writing each family member's name in the card, can feel just as personal. Consider their different tastes and whether there is enough for everyone. These small details show that you have thought about the whole family.